1. USE OUR SYSTEMS

With Custom Cupid’s systems you can get to know someone without disclosing your contact details. Both our email and chat systems are internal and therefore completely anonymous. Make sure you do not have any contact details such as email, address or telephone numbers in your profile.

2. TAKE YOUR TIME

If someone is interested in you then they will not rush you in to meeting. Make sure you have got to know someone well through the site before you disclose any contact details. Only do this when You feel ready.

3. ASK FOR A PHOTO

If someone doesn’t have a photo on their profile then ask them to send you one via our online chat function. This is a good way for people who are shy to send photos without displaying them on their site profile to other members.

4. BE CAREFUL

Have as much correspondence as possible with someone before you meet them. Be careful if you think a member of the site is lying to you or:

• Is forceful in trying to get your contact information.
• Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
• Will only speak to you on a mobile phone or office number.
• Answers reasonable questions indirectly or not at all.
• Never introduces you to friends or family members.

If you feel uncomfortable about a member and wish to have no further contact with them you can use our Block function. The member will no longer be able to see you on the site and you wont see them except in your Blocked Members Area. The member will not know that you have blocked him.

5. CHAT ON THE PHONE

This is the first step from taking your relationship from online to offline. If you want to contact someone via the telephone there are ways in which you can block your number from being viewed. Speak to your local operator about how best to do this. It is a good idea to get to know someone on the phone before meeting up.

6. FACE TO FACE MEETINGS

When you do decide to meet face to face there are several safety guidelines which you can follow.

• Always meet in a public place.
• Take a mobile phone and make sure it is fully charged and in working order.
• Tell a friend where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to be back.
• Have your own method of transportation to and from the date.
• Check in with your friend when you return home.
• If you are travelling to another City to meet someone always book your own hotel room and travel.
• Double dates or group dates are probably the safest way to meet someone.

These Guidelines are for your safety so that you can relax and enjoy the dating experience.

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